Like many longtime expats, I find myself thinking of the issue of distance and aging parents lately. My dad's birthday is two weeks away and I can't believe that he's going to be 69 years old, just a year away from being 70. I've been living outside the States for nine years now and I haven't been around to celebrate his and all of the members of my immediate family's last nine birthdays and milestones. As a result of being far away from each other for so long, they still see me as my former self from nine years ago and vice versa.

Seafood paella (paella marisco)
My family still can't imagine me in the kitchen. As I've said, I was only 24, just 2 months shy of my 25th birthday when I left. Although I wasn't a completely irresponsible person, but, like a lot of young women in their early 20's, if I wasn't at work or working on my photography or painting, I was either out clubbing until four in the morning or at some rock concert or hanging out at some trendy café on Melrose Avenue. Sometimes I did all three in a single day on my days off.
My siblings and I were quite spoiled in that we had a mother who cooked real, natural food everyday. When I moved out, I couldn't bring myself to live on canned and frozen foods or instant ramen noodles the way most people in their early 20's did. Yet, I couldn't be bothered to do the cooking myself. To get around this, I'd go to my parents' house on Sundays and take home a week's worth of food that my mom cooked. My parents used to ask me why I bothered moving out.
Anyway, my family still associates me with the way I was in my early 20's. They would have a hard time believing that I have a food blog up, let alone that I can cook paella. They, nor any of my friends, don't know that I'm maintaining a food blog.
If there's one thing that I'd love to cook for my family, it would be my Dad's favorite Spanish dish, seafood paella. My mom makes this dish for my dad every year on his birthday. She definitely will do so again in two weeks. Since my dad will be 69 years old in two weeks, I figured I'd make it for the most important man in my life anyway, even though he and my family are too far away to taste it.
So, I cooked this for you Dad, even though it's only as good as a symbolic gesture for now. It's the sincerest gesture your reserved and undemonstrative daughter can ever show her Daddy, nonetheless.
Traditionally, paella was cooked outdoors over an open fire by men, as it was considered the women's Sunday rest from the kitchen. Since my dad burns the water he boils, we're only too happy to deviate from this tradition in my family.
While I was out shopping for my paella ingredients at the market, I found these beautiful freshwater prawns. I have seen these on my pig out...er..I mean 'culinary' trips to Bangkok and Malaysia. I was only too happy to find it here in the Philippines. So, instead of using regular prawns / shrimps, I decided to use freshwater prawns / shrimps.
As you can see, unlike regular prawns / shrimps, these creatures tend to have bigger heads that are about the same length as their bodies. Their tails and claws have a beautiful shade of blue that gradually turns into orange. Their tails are similar to that of a crayfish.
Their meat is quite dense and juicy compared to regular prawns/shrimps. However, they tend to dry out quickly when overcooked and the meat starts to separate.
Look at those beautiful shade of blue claws and tails.
I asked a fellow shopper why this isn't as common here. The nice elderly lady said that these freshwater shrimps/prawns were once quite plentiful in most waterways of the Philippines, including Manila. She said that most people would just harvest these from the rivers and take them home to cook. According to the nice lady, most of the younger generations have neither seen nor tried these freshwater prawns, or ulang, as it's called in Tagalog (Filipino), since they have pretty much disappeared due to pollution. Hence, they are quite rare today in the Phlippines. These freshwater prawns were raised in ponds outside Manila.
Seafood Paella (Paella Marisco)
Recipe
(Note: I apologize for failing to mentioning the paellera, the paella pan. It is best to cook it in one as it was specifically designed for the paella. If you don't have one, or are not inclined to invest in one, make sure to cook this in a wide and shallow pan so that the stock can penetrate all the grains. When I first attempted to make this a few years ago, I made the mistake of cooking the paella in a relatively deep pan. The grains in the middle were not fully cooked since the stock was unable to penetrate.)
(Note: I apologize for failing to mentioning the paellera, the paella pan. It is best to cook it in one as it was specifically designed for the paella. If you don't have one, or are not inclined to invest in one, make sure to cook this in a wide and shallow pan so that the stock can penetrate all the grains. When I first attempted to make this a few years ago, I made the mistake of cooking the paella in a relatively deep pan. The grains in the middle were not fully cooked since the stock was unable to penetrate.)
Ingredients:
1.5 lbs (680 g), fresh mussels, purged and cleaned
1 lb (450 g) fresh clams, purged and cleaned
1/2 cup (355 ml) water
1.5 lbs (680 g) prawns / shrimps
1/2 lb (250 g) squid, cleaned and sliced into rings
3 tbsp (44 ml) extra virgin olive oil
1 onion, diced
2 cloves of garlic, crushed
1 large tomato, peeled and pureed
4 cups (946 ml) fish stock
7 oz (200 g) chicken breast fillet, chopped
7 oz (200 g) Spanish (not Mexican) chorizo, sliced ( There are many varieties of Spanish chorizos, make sure to use the one meant for cooking.)
1.5 lb (680 g) bomba or Calasparra paella rice (substitute Calrose rice if unavailable)
10 saffron threads
2 tsp (10 g) Spanish smoked paprika (pimentón) -
7 oz. (200 g) peas
3.5 oz (100g) bell peppers, chop half and slice the other half into strips
lemon wedges for garnish
Directions
Cook the shellfish:
Steam mussels and clams in a pot, add water and cover. Turn off the heat when the shells have opened. Discard unopened shells. Reserve the liquid.
Steam mussels and clams in a pot, add water and cover. Turn off the heat when the shells have opened. Discard unopened shells. Reserve the liquid.
Cook the other ingredients:
Heat olive oil over medium heat. Saute onion and garlic for about 6 minutes, stirring occasionally.
Add the tomatoes. Once the tomatoes' liquid has evaporated, add the chicken, chopped bell peppers, chorizo, and squid.
Add the rice, stir for 1 minute.
Heat olive oil over medium heat. Saute onion and garlic for about 6 minutes, stirring occasionally.
Add the tomatoes. Once the tomatoes' liquid has evaporated, add the chicken, chopped bell peppers, chorizo, and squid.
Add the rice, stir for 1 minute.
Stir in the stock, mussel and clam liquid, paprika and saffron. The rice shouldn't be visible.
Add the shrimps / prawns when the stock boils. The rice grains should be visible and start to swell by this time. Cook over medium heat, until the stock has reduced, the broth is about the same level as the rice.
Lower the heat. Allow to simmer for about 15 minutes without stirring.
Turn up the heat to medium-high to form the socorrat, the crust that forms at the bottom. This should take about 1 minute. You will be able to smell the rice toasting. Remove from heat.
Add the mussels and clams by pushing them into the rice. Add the peas and strips of bell peppers. Cover the paella with aluminum foil and allow to rest for 5 minutes. Garnish with lemon wedges.
(This post made Foodbuzz Top 9!)
What to do with leftover paella.
For North American Residents:
You can order the ingredients or other Spanish foodstuff here:
La Tienda
Where to get bomba rice and other Spanish food products in the Metro Manila area:
Terry's Selection
The Podium, Ground flr., Ortigas Center
Warning: This store is quite overpriced. Bomba rice is sold at Php 600/kg ( US $13.04/kg = $5.93/ lb).
I can't justify doling out that much for rice so I used Calrose rice as a substitute. It can be purcheased at
The Rice Center
Market! Market!, Fort Bonifacio
This isn't inside the mall but outside by the fruits section, near the outdoor eating area.
(This post made Foodbuzz Top 9!)
What to do with leftover paella.
For North American Residents:
You can order the ingredients or other Spanish foodstuff here:
La Tienda
Where to get bomba rice and other Spanish food products in the Metro Manila area:
Terry's Selection
The Podium, Ground flr., Ortigas Center
Warning: This store is quite overpriced. Bomba rice is sold at Php 600/kg ( US $13.04/kg = $5.93/ lb).
I can't justify doling out that much for rice so I used Calrose rice as a substitute. It can be purcheased at
The Rice Center
Market! Market!, Fort Bonifacio
This isn't inside the mall but outside by the fruits section, near the outdoor eating area.














13 foodies have spoken::
That's a nice little seafood dish, looks adorable!
Awww....you are such a sweet daughter! I'm sure your dad will be so happy to read this. Like you I really miss home. It's too far and too expensive to go back very often. Wishing your dad a very happy birthday! I love paella. Have never cooked myself. One day I want to try Your paella looks very delicious. I love those big fresh water prawns. I can imagine how delicious they must be. I remember my brother took me fishing for these prawns when I was back home. It was really fun.
What a lovely creation. Your paella looks almost like an artist's palatte. Symbolic or no, I'm sure your dad loved the effort you made for him. This sounds fantastic. I stopped by just to say hello and stayed longer than I planned. You have a lovely blog. I'll be back often.
@ Linn - Thanks for dropping by and the nice words. :)
@ Mary Moh - Thank you. You should try making paella. It's not hard, just a lot of work though. :(
Feel free to ask if you have any question if/when you make this.
You're lucky. These freshwater prawns are pretty much extinct in the wild over here because of the polluted waterways. Most of the freshwater prawns here are raised in prawn farms. I had these both in MY and Thailand. Their meat is so dense. I love them. I imagine they'd taste even better when freshly caught. :)
@ Mary - Thanks for visiting and staying. :) I'm glad you like my blog. Artist's palette? Thank you and you're too generous with your words. :)
Hey Kitchen Masochist Girl/Lady,
In my book, us women in our early thirties are girl-ladies...
This is a very sweet post. I think you might should send this post to your Mom & Dad-that way your Dad will know how much you love him and you can share your very nice blog with them (maybe?). They will also immediately see that you aren't that clubbing 24 year old anymore. Would she have such a wholesome, sweet hobby? I know I didn't when I was 24, but that's me so I shouldn't superimpose that on you (smile).
Anyway, very sweet and I'm sure your family would think so too. Oh, and the paella deserved Food Buzz Top 9 status for sure!
My Warmest & Witchiest, Stella
Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful!
@ Witchy Woman Stella - Thanks for dropping by and actually reading the post. I appreciate that. :)
Oh women in their early 30's are girls?? Well, if the witch says so! I don't want to find myself in your cauldron for disagreeing with a witch in the kitchen! :)
I don't even think my parents know what a blog is! My mom's pretty open to learning how to be computer literate. But my dad, well, he says he has no need for it since he's retired! My mom's been trying to get him to learn but he's stubborn.
You have a very good point, so no imposing on your part. Thanks for your kind words. :)
@ Kat - Thank you and thanks for dropping by. :)
The Paella looks so colorful and tasty, I'd love to tackle tath one but not the thought of dealing with the fresh prawns. Those little eyes starring me down. May be I can use raw shrimp? Head off of course. :)
Freshwater prawns are the tastiest morsels ever! This is just mouthwatering. Pardon me while I drool.
@ Spicy Green Mango-
Thanks for visiting.
LOL as long as you clean up after yourself, drool all you want. :)
I agree, they're quite tasty and so meaty compared to regular prawns.
Dear Kitchen Masochist - If I could erase my 20's from my head, I would.
Sometimes I shudder to think of all the stupid things an intelligent girl would do.... Yikes....
No doubt you were nothing like that :) I adore your paella post for 2 reasons - Firstly, I LOVE good paella and its so hard to find good paella.
Nothing gets my hackles up faster than watching tit cooked out of a premixed packet.
Secondly, my Dad is 73 and I love your gesture for your dad. I know how hard it is for us expats because we don't get to see our family all that often.
Stella is right, make sure you send a copy of the post to your parents.
BTW, the only I thing I love more than freshwater prawns is tiger prawns :)
Great post. Loved your use of paella in the maki rolls. Fabuloso! Very ingenious and very clever adaptation.
Hugs,
Devaki @ weavethousandflavors
Hi Kitchen Masochist - If I could I would simply erase my 20's from my head. I shudder to think of the stupid things an intelligent girl would do ..Yikes..
You I have no doubt were never that in your 20's :) Love the post because I LOVE good paella and its impossible to find good paella and secondly because my Dad is also 73 & your gesture is very sweet.
Stella is right. Send the post to your parents so they can enjoy it oo.
I know its very hard for us expats because we don't get to see our parents as often.
The paella looks fabulous & the only thing I love more than fresh water prawns are tiger prawns or king prawns ..ha..ha..ha..
Hugs,
Devaki
@ Devaki- one of the nice things about being in your 20's is that you're expected to do stupid things! I had my silly moments, but I think they are necessary for us to mature the right way.
Not seeing our family as often is a trade off for the opportunity to be able to live and work abroad for us expats. I'm certainly starting to feel that trade off as I get older and now that my parents are ageing.
I agree, good paella is very hard to find, especially in the States. Paella is pretty popular here. After all, it was a Spanish colony for 4 centuries.
There are loads of Spanish restaurants here that serve paella but it's prepared according to the local palate. People here prefer a wet paella. Not soupy, but wetter than the average Spanish paella, which really gives it a very strange mouth feel! This is one of the many reasons why it is just better that one takes the initiative to learn how to cook things yourself.
I sm with you on the tiger prawns and freshwater prawns. Love them. The seafood over here is just wonderful, and they're relatively cheap too. That's why I don't use too much beef or pork. I'm not too impressed with their quality over here.
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